My father had a substance abuse problem. This addiction was costly in many ways, one being financial. My mother was advised to take the money he spent on alcohol and spend it on herself. One wrong plus one wrong did not equal right. My mom recognized that and did not follow the counsel given. Smart woman!
Another man in this counseling session (his wife was there for some "wise" advice) had a substance abuse problem. His addiction was costly in many ways, he was impotent. She was sexually unsatisfied. She was advised to go find other men to fulfill her needs. One wrong plus one wrong did not equal right. At the session she recognized that and said that was not an option, she loved her husband. I do not know how her story ended.
We must be careful when choosing sources to advise us. The ways of the world will cause more damage to ourselves and our relationships. Really the only one I trust with advice and counseling is Jesus Christ. Where do I find this advice? In my scripture study, prayer and listening to the still small voice. Which I wish I did all three more valiantly!