Last Sunday our Sunday School lesson was entitled: "The Shepherds of Israel." It compared the difference between a sheepherder and a shepherd. The one drives the flock and cares more for him/herself than those 'sheep' in his/her care, versus the one who leads the flock with kindness, concern and gentle persuasion. One who cares more about 'the one' than him/her self.
There was a question in the manual, one the teacher did not ask, but one which I read and pondered on for a good long time. It was:
How have you been blessed by true shepherds who have done these things?
My mind went back to the year 1970/1971, when I was 18 and 19 years of age. I was young, I was thin and I was prone to wear very short skirts. I mean very short skirts! Even though I had not been raised in the L.D.S. church I had been baptized. At this point in life I was somewhat of a lost lamb. But I was blessed with a most wonderful shepherd who entered my life for only a year. His name was Larry Cook, Bishop Larry Cook. He was married to Rosemarie and they had 3 small children, Rosemary, Andrea and Christopher. The first thing this fine Bishop did was extend a calling to me. Sunday School Teacher (this was in the day and age when Sunday School was Sunday morning and Sacrament meeting was late Sunday night)! I was to teach the 3 and 4 year olds, or was it 4 and 5 year olds? Whatever age it was his two daughters were in my class. He actually trusted me with his most prized possessions! I know this calling displeased some members, especially one lady who was quite vocal about it... even to myself! With my personality she just made me chuckle and I made certain to wear the shortest skirt on Sunday just for her! Okay, so I was somewhat naughty!
Bishop Cook never discussed my attire with me. In the spring of 1971 I applied for entrance to B.Y.U,. (at my mothers insistence). I was not a full tithe payer at the time, I did not dress modestly. I had my interview with Bishop Cook and I was not terribly concerned about it. You see I had back up plans....I was planning on attending Adams State College in Colorado. I had my acceptance, I had a grant, I was set to go. I was just appeasing my mother. Imagine my surprise when I was accepted to B.Y.U.! Better yet, imagine the surprise of some Rangely Ward members!!! I have often felt Bishop Cook was an instrumental player in that acceptance.
I am deeply indebted to this man and his family. He will always be near and dear to my heart. I sent him a thank you note years ago. About two years after I sent the note I received a phone call from this wonderful man. We had a most delightful conversation. Laughing over the short skirts I then wore and the fact that he never made it an issue with me! Now Larry Cook was a true shepherd. I feel he was instrumental in the path my life took. Which has been a most wonderful path to take.
On this day of Thanksgiving I am grateful for oh so many things, but I am especially grateful for the kindness, compassion and loving acceptance of one mortal man who followed in the footsteps of the True Shepherd. I am very grateful for Bishop Larry Cook. May the Lord pour out His choicest blessings on this wonderful man and his family! Happy Thanksgiving Bishop Cook!
Wow, thanks for sharing that great story! I had no idea Grandma Hardy insisted you attend BYU! Way to go Grandma! I also grew more in debt to Bishop Cook, who I already knew you admired greatly. Were it not for him, there would be no "us".
ReplyDeleteSo on this Thanksgiving Day, beyond my gratitude for a wonderful companion, 8 beautiful children and 13 beautiful grandchildren, I extend my heartfelt appreciation to a wonderful shepherd, Bishop Larry Cook.